Ask HN: How to recover from being overworked in the past?
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In the bigger picture, the change in workplace cultures is an impactful life transition. There's no advantage in imagining it is otherwise.
To me, there are two separate dimensions. One is how the individual fits into a different work culture; the other is the work culture fits into the individual's life.
The fitting into the work culture has to happen relatively quickly. Building a life around a work culture can happen over time...maybe there's a second job or a hobby or reading or all of them in varying amounts. Maybe it's another role within the current company or at a different company...eventually, that's almost inevitable.
Good luck.
To me, there are two separate dimensions. One is how the individual fits into a different work culture; the other is the work culture fits into the individual's life.
The fitting into the work culture has to happen relatively quickly. Building a life around a work culture can happen over time...maybe there's a second job or a hobby or reading or all of them in varying amounts. Maybe it's another role within the current company or at a different company...eventually, that's almost inevitable.
Good luck.
Keep in mind that working 65-80 hours a week is actually really really bad for maximizing output. There's a large body of studies demonstrating this in a wide variety of fields. 40 hours is a lot closer to the sweet point for maximal output. See the references in http://www.igda.org/?page=crunchsixlessons
So, first, remind yourself a normal 40-hour work week is actually the best thing you could be doing for your employer long term. See similar point I made over at http://codewithoutrules.com/2016/02/24/go-home-already/
Second, the biggest benefit you can provide for your employer is coming up with the smart solution that reduces the amount of necessary work by an order of magnitude. And you don't do that by working real hard for a long time. You do that by thinking. And thinking is in part a thing you do in the back of your head while doing other stuff. See Rich Hickey's talk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f84n5oFoZBc
So, first, remind yourself a normal 40-hour work week is actually the best thing you could be doing for your employer long term. See similar point I made over at http://codewithoutrules.com/2016/02/24/go-home-already/
Second, the biggest benefit you can provide for your employer is coming up with the smart solution that reduces the amount of necessary work by an order of magnitude. And you don't do that by working real hard for a long time. You do that by thinking. And thinking is in part a thing you do in the back of your head while doing other stuff. See Rich Hickey's talk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f84n5oFoZBc
You've left the crazy startup and you've joined a new company.
How do you become "normal" again, without feeling like you're under working or not pulling your own weight?