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heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
Up until a few years ago that was my favorite demographic. Got too expensive and time consuming though so I'm trying my age for a year or two.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
I'm from Eastern Europe and speak the language. But beyond that, I didn't say THAT part would be easy, but it's doable, especially if you stay there instead of bringing them to the US. Personally I think it would be easier than keeping the average American 28 yr old happy.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
Even worse, the cars are so smart you can't force a lemon law without getting caught.

I had a friend who had two transmission burn up in his new diesel f250 10+ years ago. The second one, they gave him a remanufactured transmission even though the truck was only 1 years old or so. He put on a huge tow hitch, backed up against a huge parking structure wall, and put it in reverse for 30+ minutes until the transmission overheated and melted down.

Got the truck bought back.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
Are you denying trends and averages exist?
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
I'm 38. It's superficially easy to find a 28 year old, and would take a slight bit of effort to get with a 23 year old. And all bets are off if someone is ok going to eastern Europe or Asia. "Lost your chance in life" is retarded.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
They did not "choose you". They could not get any of the others to commit.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
Dying alone after a happy life is one thing, dying after decades of hell with a bad partner is another, and yet another to pay someone you hate until you die, like many men in California do.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
New people aren't allowed to have opinions or take part in discussions?
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
Believe me, there are many more people that care than the other way around.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
I didn't say I had trouble finding a meaningful relationship. I said I'm having trouble finding meaning in dating 38 year old women.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
Partially yes, but it's also a sign of their standards. I've personally known many girls that aren't that hard to be with, but are being foolish constantly going after guys that clearly won't commit.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
If you doubt that girls are sleeping around in college a lot, idk what to tell you. I guess when the stats come out in a decade or two you'll believe me.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
Because I don't want to feel like a fool for sticking with and supporting this woman from 40-70, when she was giving it up easily at 18-30. Luckily I'm tall and decent looking and do fine for myself, but I still have a gut feeling for reality.

Regarding the beauty.. idk what to tell you. Same reason why some people hold onto their first car, or a car they bought new and love it. Or restore old cars. But if you buy an old beat up car, you use it while you can and move on when you feel like it. Nostalgia and memories are important to many people.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
I have a feeling not wanting the love of your life to have had sex with many others is pretty engrained in most people. Everyone? No. But I consider what is most common to be close to human nature.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
Are we going to deny there was less promiscuity in the past? Just a few years ago the lifetime average partners was 7. Even that was screwed high due to recent trends.

Now most women I know have 7 by the time they leave college.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
The biggest fail IMO is that if you use this range constantly, you'll basically degrade the battery heavily. These top ranges require a full 100% charge (bad for the battery) and a pretty low level of discharge (bad for any weak cells in the pack). So yes in a special case you have that range. Using it often will cause faster battery pack degradation.

My Chevy Volt has a 15kwh pack, and only lets you use 10kwh. The bottom 2 and the top 2 are never accessible. Which means the batteries are never depleted, and never fully charged. I bought it knowing I have 10kwh to use around town or on trips (afterward the gas engine turns on). I use those 10kwh every single day, for all 177k miles of the cars life so far. I still get the same 10.3kwh I got on day one I made my purchase decision based on.

Tesla should advertise their packs the same way, explaining that the outlier 10kw are for emergencies too.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
The car is optimistic in general, if you drove at city speeds on flat land. But if you tell it exactly where you're going, it calculates based on the route required. If you started at the top of a mountain pass, the more accurate range would actually show MORE miles than the general gauge. "Omg, Tesla is under promising range now!!"
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
While this is unpopular to say, I think the advanced age of marriage and promiscuity earlier in life plays a role here.

My parents were together from 19, and knowing their style, they may both have been each other's first. As a teenager, I noticed my mother being extremely difficult. Even more so now. My father is no walk in the park either. But I believe they have a deep rooted love from decades and went through every event and basically adult stage in life together.

I'm 38. I date in my age group. Which means both of us are dating people that have been sleeping with others for two decades. Each of us has been overseas with countless friends and exs. Many women have been engaged, some married, and we've all had our hearts broken. We've all gained a few lbs. My hair is starting to grey.

Can I find someone that enjoys being with me? Sure.

Can I find someone that doesn't just say "wtf am I doing here" if times get tough for health or financial or just plain old age? I'm not sure.

I've heard many long time married old men say that when they look at their partner, they still see the beauty glimmering through that they saw at 19.

If I meet a partner at 40, when we start really getting old and annoyed, what am I going to hold on to? How lucky I am to be her 23rd partner?

I know this is a judgemental view, but I think it's human nature.

Edit: for those that think this is just some personal issue, you should look up divorce stats by number of previous sexual partners. There is a clear rise in divorce rate per increase in partners, and at about 7 it's 50%+.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
Thank you for this reply. I actually created a micro saas basically on these principles, EXCEPT I made it for my father's industry.. which makes selling it and supporting it drudgery for me.

So I know it's possible and it was nice reading your writeup reminding me I wasn't just lucky. (My father's industry is very niche and basically had zero competitors for the segment of the market (20-50 employees).

My plan is to try again soon with something I am way more passionate about.
heattemp99
·vor 3 Jahren·discuss
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