"I’ve dated every profession you can think of from doctors to electricians and unemployed guys."
That's a lot of guys. Can you shed some light on why all those failed?
"My time for having children is running out."
Realistically, time was running out in your early 30s (where female fertility starts to nose dive). After 40 and you are seriously rolling the dice (assuming the ovum even gets fertilized, there Downs, aneuploidy, etc.)
Reading these comments I realize now that despite Boudin's recall, places like SF -- dominated by leftist ideology -- still have a long, long way to go before bottoming out and smelling the coffee.