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swagasaurus-rex
·vor 29 Tagen·discuss
Nostalgia for childhood where you had a community (family) and your needs were taken care of (dependence).
swagasaurus-rex
·letzten Monat·discuss
Family is the original community
swagasaurus-rex
·letzten Monat·discuss
Loving people equally is impossible. Even poly people have a 'primary' introducing hierarchy and preference.

A group of people sleeping together is not a stable community. It's filled with people who are trying to sleep with other people inside and outside of the group who are vocal about being able to spend time, money, and effort on others for sex. There's nothing binding a group like this together besides sex.

Even normal community activities like volunteering or sports clubs have drama and people who end up hating each other. Add sex in the mix and you've created an explosive dynamic.
swagasaurus-rex
·letzten Monat·discuss
How do you address the feeling that the non-committed person you're sleeping with

1) Does not prioritize you

2) Finds somebody they like more than you

3) Not actually happy with you but still uses you

4) Is going to get STDs from other people

5) Will have less and less time for you because of others

6) Believes children can be raised "by a village" instead of their own hard work

7) Wants to involve other people in your life

8) Births a child with somebody else (maybe?) as the parent

9) The mere thought of them with another person grosses you out
swagasaurus-rex
·letzten Monat·discuss
I find it funny that poly relationships will insist on talking about feelings but get very uncomfortable at any sign of jealousy or attachment.
swagasaurus-rex
·letzten Monat·discuss
People who do not depend on relationships simply don't enter into relationships.

For everybody else, there is the normal and perfectly human feelings of jealousy, attachment, fear or loss, and feeling associated with self-confidence.
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 5 Monaten·discuss
can we also blame the DNC for not holding an election for who would run against trump?

Or the DNC for throwing Bernie under the bus in 2016 (he would have beaten trump)?

Maybe the two party system has grown rotten to the core
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 6 Monaten·discuss
Before LLMs, Google was showing highlights which took crawled content and displayed it on google search results, meaning they’d get less traffic on their site while google stole their content.

It’s unfortunate that google helped kickstart the world wide web but now they’re extracting everything while polluting search results with ads
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 6 Monaten·discuss
What’s missing from these conversations are the cost of living.

We’ve financialized the housing market, meaning the very basic needs of shelter now rises in price in accordance to the market. If tech workers make 2x or 3x the median annual salary, it makes housing prices rise for everybody else in the city.

In order to pay a “living wage” employers have to pay enough for their workers to make rent and groceries. In america, one of the highest GDP per capita in the world, the “living wage” is somewhere between 3x to 10x the offshore salary.

If you could house millions of people at the bare minimum cost, if you could provide them food and healthcare at prices that aren’t inflated, then the living wage doesn’t need to be so high.

We talk a lot about raising the minimum wage. What about lowering the minimum costs? That would mean a less stressful life for workers and cheaper labor for employers.
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 7 Monaten·discuss
Korea 1950, Tibet 1951, Vietnam 1979 (yes, China invaded Vietnam after USA withdrew).

China also has had border skirmishes with Burma, India, USSR.
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 7 Monaten·discuss
Letting kids use social media is like letting McDonalds decide what their next meal should be.
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 8 Monaten·discuss
Blue origin just landed their new glen rocket. Not an easy feat.

Although I wish billionaires would fix homelessness, I think its good there’s more competition in the space launch industry.
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 9 Monaten·discuss
I think they’re doing a great thing.

My area has seen some wildfire smoke season near the end of summer. It never happened when I was a kid. Now every summer there’s wildfire smoke for several days or several weeks.

The climate appears to be changing and heavily forested areas of midwest US and canada are on fire every summer.

Planting trees could be great for the environment, but without the moisture it could become a tinderbox for wildfires.
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 11 Monaten·discuss
Right, I’m glad there’s some platforms that still ensure standards for content.

Unlike facebook which recommends pornographic content and AI generated attention bait.
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 11 Monaten·discuss
If an AI can’t write the code after two attempts, I’ve never had success trying ten times
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 11 Monaten·discuss
Cursor based pagination was mentioned. It has another useful feature: If items have been added between when a user loads the page and hits the next button, index based pagination will give you some already viewed items from the previous page.

Cursor based pagination (using the ID of the last object on the previous page) will give you a new list of items that haven't been viewed. This is helpful for infinite scrolling.

The downside to cursor based pagination is that it's hard to build a jump to page N button.
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 11 Monaten·discuss
No need to ban speculators, just tax them fairly as the article suggests.
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 11 Monaten·discuss
Now being where you are disincentivized from making improvements?
swagasaurus-rex
·vor 11 Monaten·discuss
Buy from a speculator and you get to enter the market at a price of their choice.

Vacant land is land that somebody could have built a home or a restaurant or a storefront or an apartment complex on, except it's being hoarded by speculators, who often refuse to sell at a loss.
swagasaurus-rex
·letztes Jahr·discuss
Annihilation, that would make a good square on the bingo board