That’s true. It depends on what you’re willing to give and take. On your values and vision of life with your partner. I’ve met plenty of guys without a degree who were very intelligent and could talk about the ways of the world and their jobs. And degree holders who couldn’t’ even explain their own subject.
'Equal' in the sense of outlook is fair but you cant judge a person by external metrics.
If neither the wife nor children have any disabilities, none of the children are in a high achieving sport or similar and the children are of schooling age the husbands’ resentment is fully justified.
'Equal' in the sense of outlook is fair but you cant judge a person by external metrics.