Keeping friends and relatives that are not inherently good for me. Working in a job that do not satisfy me. ‘Higher education’ as a means for ‘success’.
It is not the delivery, because I was talking mainly about myself.
What I was referring to, was taking actions inspired by being true to myself. For example, quitting the job I disliked, instead of trying to fit in with the rest.
Cutting connections with family members I disliked their affect on me.