Just no, her behavior was unacceptable, she got him fired via publicizing the event not because of his actions, she demonstrated she's clearly emotionally unstable and she should be avoided in the future by companies,as for women have to spend their whole lives looking over their shoulders? I'm sure you don't realize this but 1) it was in front of 100s of people in public she could have easily told him to shut up. And 2) men make up the vast majority of every single crime except sexual assult, so don't act like this world is a safehaven for men and a everyday warzone for women, what she did, was clearly out of order, how would you like to get your family and career destroyed for making a slightly crude non-sexist joke?