This is a good point.
I am a married man. As a woman, my wife cannot give me guy time - hence I love to hang out with my friends (who are all guys) - and I cannot give her girl time - hence she loves to hang out with her friends (who are all girls).
The only women I am happy to be friendly with are colleagues (in a professional manner), family and ladies that my wife and I are friends with.
A lot of people baulk at this sort of arrangement/tolerance - but I bet it's quite common.
I don't know how people are so smart here. You people are really so incredibly clever and driven.
I've found myself in a data analyst job where we do lots of python and linux stuff. That's cool and all but I am such an exhausted and deeply demotivated person. I don't know what to do next with my career. I am largely banking on building strong passive income streams.
I don't think I'm in the right job or career - but I don't know what I'd do otherwise. I am not sure I can afford to do an apprenticeship.
Maybe I should speak to a psychologist.