- I pay for my college.
- I pay for my son's college.
- I pay for my niece's college.
- I pay for a stranger's college.
- I pay the university directly so that more strangers can attend.
Most people would be comfortable calling the first "investing" in yourself, and would think it ludicrous to call it "giving money away." Probably still mostly true for the second (though some would have switched camps). What about the fourth?
What I really want to know as a player is how easy it will be for me to win from this position against someone of my opponent's strength, which is admittedly a very hard thing to define, let alone compute.