I totally agree with the idea of having it all vanish. I’m still building it out, but I’m working towards an ‘eject button’ where you can download all of your notes into a CSV and get out of dodge if you choose!
I found pretty quickly in was enjoying the ritual of drinking, not the alcohol itself. Once I figured that out I would have a cold seltzer water after a day of work, or when hanging out with friends, and get the exact same ‘unwinding’ feeling.
Pretty soon after that I could have water with ice - turns out my body just wanted something cold at a certain time as a cue to relax.