I agree that ActiveRecord isn't particularly opinionated about how to deal with updates to batches of records, but there are multiple ways of approaching this and AR won't get in your way.
upsert_all[1] is available to update a batch of records in a single write that does not invoke model callbacks.
activerecord-import[2] is also very nice gem that provides a great api for working with batches of records.
It can be as simple as extracting your callback logic and a method (def self.batch_update) and running your callback logic after the upsert.
I write system tests like this with the REPL often. I just change the Capybara driver from its usual headless_chrome to chrome and put a debugger (or pry) breakpoint in the RSpec example. From there I just "drive" from the REPL, testing my finders/matchers and building up the test example as I go. As you suggest, being able to use dev tools directly in the browser being driven by Capybara is massively helpful during this stage.
For a greenfield project I'd probably reach for Inertia.js though I don't have any experience with it aside from reading the docs.
If you just want to use Vue for your rendering layer, you can can do that using a very minimal partial that renders the root element and loads the JS to mount the component. This example should get you started (Vue 2 syntax):
upsert_all[1] is available to update a batch of records in a single write that does not invoke model callbacks.
activerecord-import[2] is also very nice gem that provides a great api for working with batches of records.
It can be as simple as extracting your callback logic and a method (def self.batch_update) and running your callback logic after the upsert.
[1] https://api.rubyonrails.org/classes/ActiveRecord/Relation.ht... [2] https://github.com/zdennis/activerecord-import