High level - having a discussion with the LLM about different approaches and the tradeoffs between each
Low level - I'll write up the structure of what I want in the form of a set functions with defined inputs and outputs but without the implementation detail. If I care about any specifics with the functions I'll throw some comments in there. And sometimes I'll define the data structures in advance as well.
Once all this is set up it often spits out something that compiles and works first try. And all the context is established so iteration from that point becomes easier.
Don't sleep on daycare. It's good for the Childs social development. And a good daycare centre will follow modern pedagogical practices. If and your partner both enjoy your jobs, you'll appreciate not having to compromise your careers. And the break during the day is welcome, believe me.
Low level - I'll write up the structure of what I want in the form of a set functions with defined inputs and outputs but without the implementation detail. If I care about any specifics with the functions I'll throw some comments in there. And sometimes I'll define the data structures in advance as well.
Once all this is set up it often spits out something that compiles and works first try. And all the context is established so iteration from that point becomes easier.