Always go on a second date if they are respectful and genuinely interested.
Date obese people. They deserve love as much as anyone else, but aren't treated that way.
Try to date divorced men with children since you know they most likely value children, vs a 40yo bachelor which indicates the opposite.
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Point is you know exactly what you value: a family man to love and build a happy family.
You must accept that you are deeply marginalized in this situation given the time frame, and the realistic response is compromise. Drop all other standards and focus on what you actually value: love and family.
Filter against general attractiveness and fitness. Filter for words like "father" and "family". Filter for short men. Etc. Etc.
He's got a love-to-hate personality who is able to capture the limelight of journalist. This makes him seem like a firebrand to suckers who love him. They play off each other, making him into a massively famous celebrity.
I think this is nearly entirely wrong. It's entirely about power and god.
Xi Jinping has cracked down on Christianity shutting down many churches. China has other ethnicities besides the Han, which don't speak Mandarin. If the Uyghurs had no faith they would be safe.
There is little room for religion unless the religion is centralized and submissive to the state. In some sense religion undermines the state.