Just when you think HN is a place for enlightened commentary about science and technology, you get misogynistic comments like this. It still amazes me that in 2024 these attitudes still exist.
You sound like a lovely person. There are other factors in obesity other than personal choice. Judging a person solely by their weight and not their abilities is so short-sighted. What if you hire someone who looks great and spends all of their time at the gym, and are as dumb as dirt.