If you are a young man in this environment, I hate to say it but you are going to need something more similar to a “strategy” than “tactics.”
Approaching or chasing women, purely to try to further the species, is now profoundly uncool and stigmatized. The best way to get sex now is To actually build or organize something meaningful which has the side effect of putting you in touch or opening reasonable conversation pathways to a wide range of people.
Unless you have a logical, justified reason to talk to a woman for “business purposes,” you probably shouldn’t bother. Everyone is too busy, and sex is felt to be a third place priority behind work.
I am married and don’t need to play this game anymore, but I have noticed that organizing a event to support a “for good cause” has enabled me to talk to any woman, anywhere, of every age.
If I were single, I would very much focus on building a business; startup; community which has a public good element to it.
Unfortunately, not everyone in society is a creative entrepreneur type.
For me, I am highly introverted and don’t want anything to do with most avenues for social interaction.
Another strategy: Learn to make friends with women and ask them for help. That’s how I met my wife.
Having several female friends who can give you advice and referrals is 10,0000x better than playing the tinder game.
Deep Friendship with women is something I have learned is one of the more important aspects of the Richness of my life.
Approaching or chasing women, purely to try to further the species, is now profoundly uncool and stigmatized. The best way to get sex now is To actually build or organize something meaningful which has the side effect of putting you in touch or opening reasonable conversation pathways to a wide range of people.
Unless you have a logical, justified reason to talk to a woman for “business purposes,” you probably shouldn’t bother. Everyone is too busy, and sex is felt to be a third place priority behind work.
I am married and don’t need to play this game anymore, but I have noticed that organizing a event to support a “for good cause” has enabled me to talk to any woman, anywhere, of every age.
If I were single, I would very much focus on building a business; startup; community which has a public good element to it.
Unfortunately, not everyone in society is a creative entrepreneur type.
For me, I am highly introverted and don’t want anything to do with most avenues for social interaction.
Another strategy: Learn to make friends with women and ask them for help. That’s how I met my wife.
Having several female friends who can give you advice and referrals is 10,0000x better than playing the tinder game.
Deep Friendship with women is something I have learned is one of the more important aspects of the Richness of my life.
Women will get you other women, trust me.