Well, if Horowitz and Hill aren't doing it for you I'm not sure what can help, short of trade or professional training.
What kinds of things do you want to be able to fix?
Yes, neglect destroyed my health and social life too, and the men I meet in the places I meet them are very often from the same kind of background.
Our childhood needs were not met, hence we lacked the common lovedness that draws social groups together. In later life we find it difficult to form good relationships and find it difficult to function as part of a team.
I believe that neglect is the single most important cause of health issues. Neglect is however almost impossible to diagnose, because it is a lack, and not a thing in itself.