I think I have the same perspective. I see it as a flavor of progressive disclosure. Sane defaults and a way to customize if needed. Start with the 80% case and let people customize if they want to. It needs to be optional.
Especially with developer tools I think there's a hesitancy to be opinionated. If you don't know for sure an option is "always correct" it seems safer to ask the user. Developers can be very pedantic. "95% of people probably want it this way, but I should make people pick because that 5% has a valid point". But now you've made it worse for most users.
It's also so much more complicated to support customization, more than I think people realize. It's not just about bugs, every option makes polishing your UX much more difficult. Both because of the testing surface and also because more flexible abstractions are harder to design.
Especially with developer tools I think there's a hesitancy to be opinionated. If you don't know for sure an option is "always correct" it seems safer to ask the user. Developers can be very pedantic. "95% of people probably want it this way, but I should make people pick because that 5% has a valid point". But now you've made it worse for most users.
It's also so much more complicated to support customization, more than I think people realize. It's not just about bugs, every option makes polishing your UX much more difficult. Both because of the testing surface and also because more flexible abstractions are harder to design.