You're welcome to feel however you wish, but what good is evidence if we don't use it to try to shape how we feel about the world? The evidence tells you to be much more careful and mindful when you drive and to relax and get some sleep when you're on a plane. Your misunderstanding of statistics is keeping you from exploring the world, and that's a shame, I think.
That's not how risk works, though. The probability of dying from a gunshot to the head are basically 1, but the probability of that event happening is basically 0. So it wouldn't make sense to never go outside because getting shot in the head is almost certain death; the risk that matters is of the event itself happening, not the outcome given that the event has already occurred.
I hope you haven't driven since 2012 as well because that's orders of magnitude more dangerous. For any single flight, the probability of dying is vanishingly small.