"You'll have a cup of tea Mary?"
"Ah no.. sure I'm only after a drop"
"Ah go on... you will"
"Not at all, I'm grand"
"Go on, go on, go on you will" etc (as in Father Ted)
I'm middle-aged now so maybe this has changed with the younger generation...
Yes if only he had the heart/insight to make that 180 U-turn. It’d bring him some peace at last.