I don't understand why "break the door down" wouldn't be the most immediate course of action by a senior engineer in that situation. I'll get my tools.
The core loop of new friend formation is repeated casual contact.
School is naturally good at forcing this, since we are filtering in and out of different class groups.
If you want to recreate this in post-school life, you have to join high membership interest groups, like casual sports groups (kickball, tennis, golf).
Game nights at the local pub work well too, since there will be a rotating cast of characters to make friends with.
Basically, you have to seek novelty and regular re-occurance to make "natural" new friends.
"curl is currently 176,000 lines of C code when we exclude blank lines. The source code consists of 660,000 words, which is 12% more words than the entire English edition of the novel War and Peace.
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curl is installed in over twenty billion instances. It runs on over 110 operating systems and 28 CPU architectures. It runs in every smart phone, tablet, car, TV, game console and server on earth."