throwaway_nnn

8 jaar geledendiscuss

This subreddit is dominated by women who make it their lifestyle to be a sugar baby. It's not a representative sample, just as a Star Wars subreddit won't be a representative sample of all people who watched Star Wars movies. I'd recommend avoiding experienced girls like that (hypocritical, I know, since I'm also experienced) and not listening to any of their advice.

throwaway_nnn

8 jaar geledendiscuss

There is one poorly made website that seems to be dominating this market. It's seeking dot com.

Yes, it happened. Two girls wanted to transition to a normal relationship after several months. One of them was this extremely smart girl I mentioned. But I just couldn't do it because of how we met. I did think about 3 girls (those two included) that I'd have no reason not to date them if we met in a different way.

1-2 at a time. When I'm single, I want to have some time for normal dating as well. They lasted from one month (or less if something didn't go well) to 8 months. It's a nice thing to be able to go out on normal dates while knowing that you can have sex with a girl just as good or better looking than the date and you're not cheating.

Only cash. I don't see why I would want to spend my time going to stores with them or shopping online. I know it's a thing - I was asked to but I declined. On the other hand, I don't mind dinners or even traveling together if I want a companion. But I don't understand guys who do the shopping thing - maybe they are really in love and that's the way for them to impress the girl? But to me, it's not a "real" relationship.

throwaway_nnn

8 jaar geledendiscuss

18-24. It would be quite hard for me to meet girls this age on Tinder but it's not hard for me to meet 25+ year-olds on it.

@person_of_color Edit because I hit the posting limits: I've done it with breaks for real relationships in mid-to-late 30s.

throwaway_nnn

8 jaar geledendiscuss

$3k-7k per month. There was one exception at $10k/month but that involved threesomes.

throwaway_nnn

8 jaar geledendiscuss

I have enough money that ~$3-7k/month doesn't make a large difference. I've never bought anything additional for them unless you count paying for dinner and drinks and Ubers.

Youth is definitely a top draw. You might have seen this study: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/style/dating-apps-online-... - men of all ages send most messages to 18-19 year-olds. But there are other factors: not my experience but some men have fetishes they want to fulfill or they want to cheat. I'm actually doing well enough on Tinder to meet a new, above average girl every day in a big city. But I'm not in the social circles that would allow me to meet top current models or ballet dancers... But this makes it possible.

It's just my impression that could be wrong but I'm 90%+ sure that none of the girls I was seeing had other "clients." I'm picky and I avoid girls who seem like "party girls" and have no job or don't go to school. Also, only one of them had a previous arrangement and all of them wanted to have chemistry first. They describe most of the other men they met as weird and unattractive.

So I agree with you that you can't trust 80%+ of them if you care about not being just another client.

throwaway_nnn

8 jaar geledendiscuss

Go ahead and ask something about it, the throwaway account is ready. Not in SV however. It's been interesting - e.g. I met the smartest (but lazy) person I know and I know for sure that one tech billionaire that you've likely heard of was also doing it.

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