Not even a big "browser". This realization hit me after missing some uni events after reading negative comments on town subreddit, then discovering that I actually know one of the commenters in real life and he is just a plain idiot and it was an obvious mistake to not go. When there is no objective criteria, relying on personal judgement or plain chance is just a better way to go instead of overthinking based on stranger advice.
My life quality increased immensely when I realized most of Reddit is bots and the parts written by real humans are usually written by the type of person that you really shouldn’t take any advice from
Because in most non-Western countries it’s assumed that even a marriage solely meant for making children will never dissolve. Let alone the western divorce courts which are prone to leaving the man with no real access to their kids and 18 years of financial obligation to a woman who hates him. Divorce is how vast majority of western marriages end up in our modern times.
If you don’t internalise this simple reality you will not understand why those men behave towards you the way they do.