I don't know what line of work you're in, but I use a desktop orders of magnitude faster than my first computer also, and image processing, compilation, rendering, and plenty of other tasks aren't suddenly thousands of times faster. Not to mention that memory safety is just one type of failure in a cornucopia of potential logical bugs. In addition, I like core dumps because the failure is immediate, obvious, and fatal. Finally, stacks don't "randomly explode." You can overflow a stack in other languages also, I really just don't see what you're getting at.
It's just as "amazing" to read these takes from techno purists. You use software written in C++ daily, and it can be a pragmatic choice regardless of your sensibilities.
Ligatures, IMO, make for a bad coding editor experience. No, I do not want >> parsed as a right shift when it's actually used as two adjacent template delimiters. And no, I'm not okay with the inconsistency that results from the usage of different operators from one programming language to another. Want to change a != to a == operator? Enjoy futzing with placing the cursor properly. It's a cute idea, but I found it more annoying to use in practice.
Well, `std::regex` is literally orders of magnitude slower than other common regex libraries found in JS, Python, Perl, C, etc. It allocates a ton, is poorly implemented, and can never be fixed due to ABI constraints. The entire <regex> subsystem is a mess and should have never been standardized as is.