On the topic of open source for hardware; There's an open source software for Hantek oscilloscopes http://openhantek.org/ (not official) , which is yet another thing i'l have to get myself some day.
An open source soldering iron, original by a Chinese company Miniware. I don't know how good their sales are, but the iron is so good it got that Louis Rossmann praised it (for the price, ofc). And it seems to be very popular (probably not nearly as much as Weller, but hey).
Not on my computer. Something like a WM will freeze while it waits in queue to read those 0.2kB it needs of the disk (poor software design, if you ask me). But the mouse will freeze when IO buffers get filled. Just writing a huge file to a (slow-ish) usb stick will make my whole computer freeze, including the mouse, because the kernel usb code doesn't limit the buffer to some sane size (there was a kernel patch, and there is an option, and even with it turned on the problem is still there) (note that the probable reasoning for that is the fact that usb sucks).
A mouse cursor, AFAIK, is a gpu thing, not that it matters (wayland, i remember something that, will use normal gpu rendering to render the mouse). In the UNIX haters handbook there is a section about X where it is written that displays used to have 2-3 planes (IIRC, 2 planes + a cursor plane. I do recommend reading the good book, as it is funny).
I remember some talk about better kernel buffers management just for things like this. Memory management in the kernel is one of those actually hard things.
Worth reading is the builtin documentation ("h" or F1). More things there like memory used in virtualization, T, Z and D for processes, and "l" and "s" commands.