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plusfour
·19 dni temu·discuss
27. it's creating about 20k a day.
plusfour
·19 dni temu·discuss
So the body does keep the score?
plusfour
·19 dni temu·discuss
160gb for 27m torrents
plusfour
·20 dni temu·discuss
Same here, for over a year. how many torrents has yours indexed?
plusfour
·3 miesiące temu·discuss
fuck off
plusfour
·3 miesiące temu·discuss
i don't care
plusfour
·11 miesięcy temu·discuss
Is this a case for steel-manning? We know what this is about and what's at stake.
plusfour
·11 miesięcy temu·discuss
have some self respect.
plusfour
·12 miesięcy temu·discuss
you're welcome!

>I found it difficult to tell what I really want.

i assume it's almost universally true.

it might be the case that you're already doing what you really want.

and what you think you should do, those thoughts that create the conflict, are most of the time internalized expectations.

only recently i realized that all my adult life i've done pretty much only what was good for me. avoided some major traps of conformity. but constantly felt that anxious pressure from internalized expectations.

now i'm learning to trust my Self - that preconscious source of "wisdom" that i was previously not even aware of.
plusfour
·12 miesięcy temu·discuss
> but I just don’t feel the interest to pursuit any intellectual hobbies that I used to pursuit

> Interest

maybe you outgrew them. maybe don't try to pursue something you're not Interested in. let interest be the north star that guides your attention.

that "conflict" you feel between what you Are interested in, and what you Think you should be interested in, is not healthy.
plusfour
·2 lata temu·discuss
Test results are a measure of how well you can do on tests.
plusfour
·2 lata temu·discuss
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plusfour
·2 lata temu·discuss
do it anyways.
plusfour
·2 lata temu·discuss
Ok, I see your point. Yes, it's a specific flavor of uncertainty. The ones you listed are about outcome uncertainty (anticipation). And uncanniness is about the nature of things.
plusfour
·2 lata temu·discuss
> That's not the same thing as a loss of control.

Not a loss, but it is a lack. You can't have perceived autonomy without certainty.