I’m a big fan of Anvil[0]. It feels like the right amount of low code, if that makes sense. Abstracts away everything but the core app logic, which you write in Python. So it works well because you get the flexibility of code for the unique logic/behavior while the rest just works.
My company now runs our front-end app on Anvil, works beautifully.
I haven’t had it quite as bad as you, but I’ve struggled for sure. Someone on HN recommended a book called Healing Back Pain[0] - I found it really helpful. Might be worth picking up a copy.