The fact that you're able to share this opinion on HN without being downvoted, super-downoted (i.e. flagged), and super-duper-downvoted (i.e. moderated), shows that you're in the privileged minority here. That raises serious questions about whether your opinion about being "bullied", etc., is even relevant, because you objectively aren't. This only serves to itself belittle, shun, and disrespect those who are not allowed to share their opinion in these undiverse spaces.