Are fruits and vegetables designed to be addictive? Are hobbies like playing the piano or running designed to be addictive? I think you're too expansive in your use of "everything".
Needed a new job this year. I looked for a job in Elixir and couldn't get hired. Expanded my scope a bit and got hired for JavaScript and PHP in my highest paying job yet. Not exactly my favorite languages, but hey, it's what the market wants to pay me for.