> To me the real enlightened view is to use social media as a tool while not letting it consume your life.
That's where the trouble starts. You don't have control when you use social media. By its very nature, it draws you in like a vortex. You can't get out.
I think that the basis of these is that parents, especially mothers, do not pay enough attention to their children. The entry of mothers into business life left children without love, indifference and defenseless. As a result of this incident, children try to take this attention from external attention centers, such as TikTok.