Glad you mentioned Chaturbate. I'm a consumer, but haven't the courage to log in or contribute yet! Whenever I get overdosed with women beating up on male sexuality, or the perpetual discussion of how awful and exploitative porn is, I know I can go to Chaturbate. I'll find lots of happy smiling people. On the couples page, young good looking couples, rightly proud of their skills, are having the sex we should all be having. Women are getting pleasured as much as men, by and large. Some might find the practices disgusting, but the practitioners don't seem to. Apart from perhaps the full-timers, I don't see much social-influencer preening. It's more spontaneous, plus preening in a bedroom setting seems less about vanity and more about getting yourself properly rogered. If we're having more and better sex, and it certainly looks like it, we probably have porn and the pill, and now chat sites to thank. Goodness, only a few decades ago we needed Alex Comfort to tell us that oral sex was alright. In particular, hope this isn't the dirty old man speaking, women (especially but not only on Chaturbate) seem to have thrown off the yoke of an imposed modesty, and seem not to be missing it much. I'm sure there are problems, and abuse, but I wish this and other hand-wringing discussions would start from the premise that if we are having more and freer sex, that's a good thing, and that men and women, despite all the problems, are made for each other.