As a fellow cis, white, monogamous, straight male...
this post sounds like such a troll that I can't take it seriously. We have every privilege and advantage that one could hope for, especially in tech. Use it. And try to use it for the good of others where possible.
If you really try to be a nice guy, and someone really shits on you for being different from them... laugh it off, knowing that you have advantages that they don't have. Offer them some dollar bills to wipe away the tears with.
You're not being systematically discriminated against. In the very worst case, you're dealing with a few assholes who don't recognize when they're projecting their own issues onto someone else. Being called "evil" is pretty meaningless if you're not actively trying to screw people over.
If you really try to be a nice guy, and someone really shits on you for being different from them... laugh it off, knowing that you have advantages that they don't have. Offer them some dollar bills to wipe away the tears with.
You're not being systematically discriminated against. In the very worst case, you're dealing with a few assholes who don't recognize when they're projecting their own issues onto someone else. Being called "evil" is pretty meaningless if you're not actively trying to screw people over.