Hm, interesting points. In particular, the part about age being hollow. Hm. And also, the poor programmer part. HN does sometimes seem to convey a message that if you aren't a good programmer, your code won't succeed in what you make, if that makes sense.
Lamenting isn't good, true. It's just so hard to be motivated sometimes.
Also, I like your name. I have an account on HN but my usual passwords aren't working on it. So this name it was.