I’ve been there too. Finally opted for Flutter (need cross-platform mobile and desktop). Apple needs to put a big effort into the development tools, or they will face the actual Windows situation: several GUI toolkits, none of them as mature as the ones they are designed to replace. (Try to beat Windows Forms Professional Control Libraries and the boost in development performance you get. You can’t because the tool makers need a clear path and commitment in order to justify developing a new version of the full control libraries. You need cross-platform; forget the native tools. That’s the same scenario Apple is facing right now.)
This is the kind of creative out of the box thinking, official technology is lacking right now. Many times we don’t need new technologies, what we need are new ways to use what we have right now.