"Today, though, a young man working at a Walmart or a gas station will struggle to attract a stable partner or the respect of the world around him."
True if they are not good looking. If a guy is really handsome, he could attract a partner easily and people will like him due to halo effect. When people say "surreal" they mean "real", it's just most of your life is not very real, just repetition and routine. - Norm Macdonald