This week I have had two of my few friendships hit the rocks who have approached me for money.
One is pushing me to invest in his business, and one approached me for a reasonably large loan.
I've explained to both that I don't feel able to, but I can tell that both feel I am being unreasonable because it's only $XXk which they know isn't that significant to me.
I wish they hadn't have asked as it feels fatal for the friendships.
I already feel a bit of an outsider for sometimes having money.
Maybe all of these problems are in my own head.....
Either way, the lottery winner had the right idea.
One is pushing me to invest in his business, and one approached me for a reasonably large loan.
I've explained to both that I don't feel able to, but I can tell that both feel I am being unreasonable because it's only $XXk which they know isn't that significant to me.
I wish they hadn't have asked as it feels fatal for the friendships.
I already feel a bit of an outsider for sometimes having money.
Maybe all of these problems are in my own head.....
Either way, the lottery winner had the right idea.