You are probably not that good. And that's totally fine. You are not your work, and you shouldn't define yourself by your job alone. You are a multifaceted human, complete with all the inherent complexity.
You're still young - you need to get some experience under your belt. That means spending 1 or 2 years at a couple of middle of the road jobs. Unless the role is clearly really poor, then you shouldn't be turning stuff down.
Get some experience, be poor for a bit, spend your last £10 on tequila and go and find somebody to love. Live a bit while you're young, you will grow through time.
There are no shortcuts.
I agree with your family, stop being spoilt and lazy.
You are probably not that good. And that's totally fine. You are not your work, and you shouldn't define yourself by your job alone. You are a multifaceted human, complete with all the inherent complexity.
You're still young - you need to get some experience under your belt. That means spending 1 or 2 years at a couple of middle of the road jobs. Unless the role is clearly really poor, then you shouldn't be turning stuff down.
Get some experience, be poor for a bit, spend your last £10 on tequila and go and find somebody to love. Live a bit while you're young, you will grow through time.
There are no shortcuts.
I agree with your family, stop being spoilt and lazy.