So either I feel bad because I'm constantly reminded that bad things happen to me or I feel bad because I'm constantly reminded that I don't deserve the good things, because they are 'privileges'?
What's really going to blow your mind is when you realize that everything belongs on both lists - it just depends on your point of view when thinking about that particular list item.
> privileges, advantages and opportunities
So either I feel bad because I'm constantly reminded that bad things happen to me or I feel bad because I'm constantly reminded that I don't deserve the good things, because they are 'privileges'?