Have you read Rest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (Or Anyone Who Acts Like One) by Dr. Deborah MacNamara?
If not, I highly recommend you do that. It helped me a lot in understanding some fundamentals. My kid is 4 years old now.
As a general advice, I'd say no matter how you approach it, don't be too hard on yourself or your kids. There will be times when you'll have no time for your kids. And that is fine. Just be fully present whenever you're with them. When kids grow up, they remember specific moments and events with their parents that shape their thinking.
If not, I highly recommend you do that. It helped me a lot in understanding some fundamentals. My kid is 4 years old now.
As a general advice, I'd say no matter how you approach it, don't be too hard on yourself or your kids. There will be times when you'll have no time for your kids. And that is fine. Just be fully present whenever you're with them. When kids grow up, they remember specific moments and events with their parents that shape their thinking.
All the best!