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Memory Safety Is a Matter of Life and Death

joshlf.com
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Ask HN: How are you preparing for interviews nowadays?

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I caught the car

undecidability.net
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Engineering, Fast and Slow

undecidability.net
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You still have to think. But only when you want to

undecidability.net
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Meta lays off 600 from "bloated" AI unit

cnbc.com
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holden_nelson
·เดือนที่แล้ว·discuss
Eh, I don’t know. We’re talking about high school math proficiency here. The upper 80% of students should be capable of passing that, in my estimation. Regardless of differences in capability among that 80% (which I acknowledge!)
holden_nelson
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Not the person you’re replying to, but, because I don’t know what they know.

“I don’t really know much about that, go ask _____” is the desired response in that situation
holden_nelson
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HelloInterview has helped me I think. Especially with system design
holden_nelson
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Full story and analysis of the crash: https://admiralcloudberg.medium.com/the-long-way-down-the-cr...
holden_nelson
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did someone actually ask you that?
holden_nelson
·2 เดือนที่ผ่านมา·discuss
Author here. I just started blogging this year. Been really interesting to see a post get some traction and read everyone's responses. Thank you all for reading.

I left out a detail that might be relevant? Maybe not? I couldn't decide. SWE is actually a second career for me. I flunked out of college when I was 19, spent most of my 20s working as a chef, and then graduated college and started this job at 29. So I'm 31 now. So it's been funny to read things like "Congrats to this kid" haha.

If the post was about _how_ I got promoted that fast, I'm pretty sure this ^ would be the #1 reason. I'd already been programming for like 10 years when I started this job. People paid me (almost nothing) to write software that they still use today (much to my chagrin - it wasn't very good). So I felt like I had a "head start" compared to most of my intern cohort (though, to be clear, I still to this day feel very behind, in general).
holden_nelson
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Yeah, you're probably right. Sorry.

Writing and sharing it is vulnerable, and it's always drove me crazy to see people treat those who choose to do that uncharitably. I try to check them when I can (on other people's posts). I should trust others in this context to do the same.

I should probably develop a thicker skin if I'm going to blog on the internet in 2026.
holden_nelson
·2 เดือนที่ผ่านมา·discuss
Thanks! Good luck as you work your way towards Scrum Master ;)
holden_nelson
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Yeah I have similar thoughts. I think you have to just consider the situation holistically. Senior with two years experience? Ok, this person is obviously skilled, and has the ability to create value and have impact, and has seriously impressed people in their org, but they're still early in their career and they probably have future mistakes to make and lessons to learn.
holden_nelson
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Important to who?

As an engineer, I just want to get an idea of where this person is at in their learning journey and what their personality is like, do they have certain intangibles, etc.

The recruiter who screens the person before they ever talk to me, on the other hand...
holden_nelson
·2 เดือนที่ผ่านมา·discuss
Agreed, juniors get a bad rap.

Something that complicates the problem is that not all juniors are the same.

Some juniors really just need to be shown the ropes and learn a few things and they can start contributing at mid-level. And then after a little bit of doing that they can start having Senior-level impact.

Some juniors take a little longer and need a little more help and that's totally fine, and they don't deserve to be ripped apart by smug seniors who forget they used to not know anything either.

And some juniors just don't really have the sauce and never really gravitate above mid-level, regardless of where their title ends up. Feel for these folks but they at times can be frustrating to work with.

But yes, to reiterate, in any case, the junior snark is hella annoying.
holden_nelson
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I think there are pragmatic reasons to care that extend beyond vanity. If I want Staff-level pay, responsibilities, and organizational influence I need to make it to Senior first.

Perhaps it's a bad signal if an engineer cares _only_ about their title though.
holden_nelson
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Oh man. That means I'm _so_ obsessed with my new title that I've gone meta and found a sneaky, disingenuous way to brag about it on HN. Thanks for pointing that out. I must have a serious personality disorder. I should probably see a shrink
holden_nelson
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Thanks for the charitable read. Yeah, it's not like the part of my personality I'm lamenting has just gone away ;) I did have a hard time writing this post because I'm not under the delusion that what I achieved is truly grand or worth posting on HN about. It was more meant to be a reflection on a mistake I made: setting a bad goal and then fixating on it.

But yes, I feel a small tinge in my brain whenever I'm introduced as a "senior engineer". I'll know I've truly made it when that finally goes away.
holden_nelson
·2 เดือนที่ผ่านมา·discuss
I agree, it feels like roles help the most by getting you through the recruiter and in front of a hiring manager. Which is unfortunate.
holden_nelson
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Thanks for sharing. Really impressive journey, congrats and nicely done.

I touched on it a little bit in my post but yeah I can not overstate the role of luck, both "internal luck" (do I have a good manager) and "external luck" (did I choose the right offer out of college).

I mean sure, pat myself on the back for doing well in my intern interview, doing well in the internship and getting the return offer, doing well when I returned after school, etc... but I was damn lucky that recruiter plucked my resume out of the stack and put it on the "send a coding screen" pile when I was still in school. So yeah, the way I view it is that you have to be ready to take advantage when the luck breaks your way.
holden_nelson
·2 เดือนที่ผ่านมา·discuss
Ha! It's funny I didn't notice that juxtaposition when I was writing it.

Understandable take. One counterpoint I would offer (with no proof, so take it or leave it) is that what I mostly see is engineers get passed up for promos that I feel they deserve. I think a large part of that is cutbacks - they haven't done layoffs, but around the time I started, they started cutting benefits, cutting RSUs, and my manager literally told me "due to budget constraints they are going to scrutinize promos very heavily going forward."

But! I don't work at a FAANG or an AI firm or anywhere with an extreme performance culture either. So regardless of YOE, if you're skilled, motivated, and a little lucky, you can really shine...
holden_nelson
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Hope that person with the chest pain went to the doctor
holden_nelson
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this is the only use case I'm super bullish on. And for this it is revolutionary. Agreed.
holden_nelson
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I feel like the author is either embellishing the examples of frivolous communication they give or they work with some absolute headcases.

On my team we all trust each other to be fairly direct. On the flip side, “softening” a remark can signal to the recipient that you’re open minded to other solutions. “We should do X.” and “how would you feel about doing X?” accomplish the same thing but the second one fosters more psychologically safe discussion in my opinion.